Couples Therapy with Nate Carela, LMFT
Helping you find your way back to each other
Feeling disconnected and divided? Strengthen your bond and grow closer again.
On the surface, your relationship looks great and put together. Both of you appear happy, present a united front, and seem to get along just fine.
As a result, others may turn to you for relationship advice, possibly overlooking the fact that you, too, struggle with your own relationship concerns, dismissing them as temporary challenge.
Your commitment to your partner is unwavering, you recognize each other’s strengths, you're willing to admit your own imperfections, and genuinely believe you still love them.
To anyone's knowledge, your relationship is thriving. After all, you’ve been at this for quite a while, and it looks like you have a supportive, "ride-or-die" partner.
But, despite this facade, you often feel alone, frustrated, and at times, in desperation.
You don’t have to keep pretending everything’s okay—let’s explore what’s really going on, and begin the work of restoring connection.
— Nate
When love feels harder than it should, you’re ready for more.
The couples I see, struggle as your relationship might, despite their commitment, self-awareness, and love for each other. The truth is, maintaining healthy relationships can be complex.
When they initially seek help, they often sense that something is “off” in their dynamic. Conversations easily escalate into heated arguments, and they may find it difficult to express or receive affection. In some cases, sex is their main connection but it’s been a while since they’ve had fun together.
Many struggle to communicate clearly and openly for fear of being judged. They learn to hold stuff in and explode later so their true dreams for their marriage remain unspoken.
They've experimented with various strategies, such as check-ins and timeouts, and may have even sought clergy counseling. Still, nothing seems to work consistently. It pains them to see that their marriage is so complicated when other areas of their lives are thriving.
— Nate
Breaking Old Patterns & Building Something New
For some individuals, self-doubt and past relationship history get in the way of creating the connection they truly want. They feel like they aren’t the kind of friends or parents they hope to be.
They may feel as though they’re failing at being a great partner, and their confidence in making positive changes is slowly drifting away.
Before coming to see me, many feared their relationship was beyond help. They worried their negative patterns couldn’t change—especially after trying couples therapy before, or while already in individual counseling.
Even when things feel stuck, it’s not too late for change. Your relationship deserves the chance to heal and thrive.
If you’re ready to take the next step, let’s talk.
— Nate
Like my clients, you deserve to experience a relationship where happiness is a result of mutual understanding, appreciation, and working together at reaching common goals.
I believe that having fun and enjoying intimacy (emotional, sexual, physical) with your partner is attainable.
My goal is to guide couples as they work through what’s holding them back from being who they aspire to be.… maybe make sure it’s also realistic!
Couples therapy isn’t:
Being told what role each person in the relationship is supposed to have
Me downplaying your attempted solutions to work through conflict
Me picking sides with the person who makes the most “sense” in the session
Getting all the answers in a session and everything is fixed forever
Together we’ll focus on progress, growth, and finding the tools that truly work for you.
— Nate
I guide couples towards reconnecting
Build a stronger bond.
We’ll begin with your initial intake session to get a sense of what your needs are and where I can help. I’m excited to help clients who want to have a happy, connected, healthy, and positive relationship. I work with people who want to do the work and get excited about their future.
What we discuss in therapy is 100% confidential. You may feel vulnerable initially, but our pace, what you disclose, and how we approach solutions and coping skills is up to you. I will challenge you, show you different perspectives, and help you find the tools you need to have a more fulfilling relationship.
If you are ready to build a relationship worth holding on to, I’d love to help you get there. Schedule your no-obligation, free 20-minute phone consultation today. It’s time to turn your relationship around. I'm here to help.
— Nate
you’ve got questions. I’ve got answers.
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Therapy appointments are available in person and online: Mondays and Wednesdays at 9am, 10am, 11am, 12pm, 2pm, and 3pm; Tuesdays at 10am, 11am, 12pm, 2pm, and 3pm, and Thursdays at 10am, 11am, and 12pm.
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I am contracted with Blue Cross Blue Shield, Blue Care Network, and Blue Care Network Advantage (Medicare).
If you have out-of-network coverage with another insurance provider, I can assist you in seeking reimbursement. Depending on your plan, your insurance may cover a portion of our fees.
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The first session (intake) costs $200 and lasts 60 minutes. The following couples therapy sessions are priced at $195 for 50-55 minutes. I recommend that couples begin with weekly sessions and later transition to every other week.
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The duration of therapy varies based on individual needs. My approach is flexible, accommodating the pace of change during our sessions and in between. Many couples often observe significant progress within the first few months.
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We can meet in person at 7000 Roosevelt Ave. Suite 201 Allen Park, MI 48101. We can also meet online through a secure Telehealth platform. You have the option to use your laptop or download a provided app for your phone or tablet.