couples therapy in Southfield, MI

A couple smiling, hugging each other, and a nature background. This describes how Nate Carela provides relationship therapy online in Michigan.

online therapy across Michigan & Florida

You’re ready for more.

The couples I see, struggle as your relationship might, despite their commitment, self-awareness, and love for each other. The truth is, maintaining healthy relationships can be complex.

When they initially seek help, they often sense that something is “off” in their dynamic. Conversations easily escalate into heated arguments, and they may find it difficult to express or receive affection. In some cases, sex is their main connection but it’s been a while since they’ve had fun together.

Many struggle to communicate clearly and openly for fear of being judged. They learn to hold stuff in and explode later so their true dreams for their marriage remain unspoken.

They've experimented with various strategies, such as check-ins and timeouts, and may have even sought clergy counseling. Still, nothing seems to work consistently. It pains them to see that their marriage is so complicated when other areas of their lives are thriving.

For some individuals, their self-doubt and past relationship history gets in the way of achieving the relationship they want. They aren’t the kind of friends or parents they want to be.

They feel like they’re failing at being a great partner and their confidence in changing for the better is slowly drifting away.

Before they came to see me, they feared their relationship was beyond help. They worried their current negative habits weren’t going to change because some have tried couples therapy already and some are currently in individual counseling.

A couple facing away from each other. Nate Carela provides couples counseling online in Michigan to people who are struggling.

I guide couples towards reconnecting

Like my clients, you deserve to experience a relationship where happiness is a result of mutual understanding, appreciation, and working together at reaching common goals.

I believe that having fun and enjoying intimacy (emotional, sexual, physical) with your partner is attainable.

My goal is to guide couples as they work through what’s holding them back from being who they aspire to be.… maybe make sure it’s also realistic!

Couples therapy isn’t:

  • Being told what role each person in the relationship is supposed to have

  • Me downplaying your attempted solutions to work through conflict

  • Me picking sides with the person who makes the most “sense” in the session

  • Getting all the answers in a session and everything is fixed forever

A man kisses a woman in the forehead. This shows how Nate Carela provides couples therapy online in Michigan to help them be connected.

build a stronger bond.

We’ll begin with your initial intake session to get a sense of what your needs are and where I can help. I’m excited to help clients who want to have a happy, connected, healthy, and positive relationship. I work with people who want to do the work and get excited about their future.

What we discuss in therapy is 100% confidential. You may feel vulnerable initially, but our pace, what you disclose, and how we approach solutions and coping skills is up to you. I will challenge you, show you different perspectives, and help you find the tools you need to have a more fulfilling relationship.

If you are ready to build a relationship worth holding on to, I’d love to help you get there. Schedule your no-obligation, free 20-minute phone consultation today. It’s time to turn your relationship around. I'm here to help.

We’ll begin where you are

I'll gather information about your challenges, goals, obstacles, and strengths. I’ll also answer your questions and create initial goals.

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HOW IT WORKS

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We’ll make a plan of action

During sessions 2-3, I’ll continue gathering info and we'll collaborate to create a plan of action. I often provide you with tools and coping skills based on your needs.

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We’ll take it one step at a time

From sessions 4+, our focus shifts to learning and practicing coping skills, working through conflict, and building new agreements based on our plan of action. We'll proceed at a pace that aligns with the needs of your relationship.

FAQS

you’ve got questions. I’ve got answers.

  • I am currently contracted with Blue Care Network (HMO) and Blue Care Network Advantage (Medicare).

    For clients with other insurance providers, if you have out-of-network coverage, I can support you in seeking reimbursement. You will be required to pay the session fees in advance.

    Depending on your plan, your insurance company may reimburse a portion of these fees to you.

  • The first session (intake) costs $200 and lasts 60 minutes. The following couples therapy sessions are priced at $195 for 50-55 minutes. I recommend that couples begin with weekly sessions and later transition to every other week.

  • The duration of therapy varies based on individual needs. My approach is flexible, accommodating the pace of change during our sessions and in between. Many couples often observe significant progress within the first few months.

  • We can meet in person at 29532 Southfield Rd. Suite 115 Southfield, MI 48079. We can also meet online through a secure Telehealth platform. You have the option to use your laptop or download a provided app for your phone or tablet.

  • We offer a comprehensive research-based assessment that provides a 360-degree view of your relationship. This assessment delivers an overview of your relationship's strengths and challenges, along with tailored therapy recommendations. Accessing this valuable assessment requires a one-time payment of just $39.

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